LET’S PARTY………………… OR NOT
Let’s at least acknowledge the New Year and celebrate. If a big wild party, including next day hangover is in your plans, please be safe and responsible. Remember you are responsible for your actions.
If the wild party is not your style than plan something more subdued. Like I said earlier, the important part is to acknowledge the New Year and celebrate.
Celebrating the New Year helps the ”start over”, ” start anew” or ”make changes for the better” attitude come to surface. This is often called a ” New Year’s resolution”
Here is something to think about. You have the opportunity to make or affirm those ” New Year’s resolutions” every day. You don’t have to wait for a special day on the calendar.
A reason many ”New Year’s resolutions” don’t work or don’t last is because they have been made or affirmed only once, on New Year’s. If you really want change make your resolution or affirmations every day. And give some thought to the way you say and feel about your affirmation.
Here is an example. Many people start an exercise program or sign up at the gym to help get their bodies in better condition. They diligently get up and trudge off to the gym saying to themselves ”I HAVE to go to the gym to burn off calories because I’m too heavy and my clothes don’t fit and I don’t look good and I don’t feel good.”
If that is your resolution or affirmation the universe will make sure that you have extra calories to burn and will make sure that you stay heavy and make sure that your clothes don’t fit and make sure you don’t feel good and don’t look good.
Try this instead…
”Today I GET to do something good for my body and health. I feel great and I look great. This is so easy”.
Try it, it really works!
Back to the ”couple’s activity”. However you choose and when ever you choose to celebrate the new year have fun together embracing the new opportunity and letting go of last year.
Maybe it’s as simple as a late-night snack, cheese and crackers, shrimp cocktail, champagne, sparkling cider, watching the TV New Year’s shows, or sitting by a fireplace with a hot cup of cocoa, or your favorite hot drink. You don’t even have to stay up late. If you go to bed early, believe me, the New Year will still show up! Romantic couples that go to bed early can bring in the New Year in their own intimate style…
Another fun couple’s thing to do is to listen to each other’s New Year’s resolutions and help each other with the wording of the new affirmation.
Singles, celebrate that New Year. Stay in, go out, wild or quiet, it doesn’t matter. Let go of the past (last year) and don’t even talk about it. It’s behind you good or bad. Embrace the new and bring into your life what you want with daily New Year’s resolutions.
Look forward to surprises and you will be surprised.